Why we used to point out others things more often and hardly cares about what we are doing. Its really a serious matter, we all hardly cares about ourselves, and used to point out others things more often. We are more concerned what others are doing specially our neighbours, he is doing this and all, why don't we have anything left to think about ourselves. We hardly do anything on our own and point out others whether they are doing good or bad. it hardly matter, we don't even think on this.
I believe people do this because you can easily noticed when you point out someone on some issue, and what if, if you are doing a good thing and hardly noticed by someone. It hurts most of the people because nobody do anything for their own satisfaction, everyone wants that their work and doings most be praised and noticed by someone.
And that we are doing, Check this neighbours also.
A young couple moves into a new neighborhood. The next morning, while they are eating breakfast, the young woman sees her neighbor hang the wash outside.
That laundry is not very clean, she said, she doesn't know how to wash correctly. Perhaps she needs better laundry soap.
Her husband looked on, but remained silent. Every time her neighbor would hang her wash to dry, the young woman would make the same comments.
About one month later, the woman was surprised to see a nice clean wash on the line and said to her husband: "Look! She has learned how to wash correctly. I wonder who taught her this."
The husband said: "I got up early this morning and cleaned our windows!"
And so it is with life: "What we see when watching others depends on the purity of the window through which we look. Before we give any criticism, it might be a good idea to check our state of mind and ask ourselves if we are ready to see the good rather than to be looking for something in the person we are about to judge.
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