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Can best friends be lovers?

A situation : two best friends, a guy and a gal (say Pradeep and Pooja), friends from their childhood days. They love to talk about everything, share some special moments with each other, was each others part at every occasions, whether it will be a sad or good moment. Love each other like a friend, and don't hide anything from the other part. Now they are grown ups. And they are still the same kiddos... But started thinking about their future plans.

One day, they are in some restaurant and celebrating something, and suddenly something happened that made Pooja to stand up from her chair and took a slow walk from their and stand by a pillar near by. Pradeep come closer to her and... rest imagine yourself. As they both know they love each other and expressed their love to each other and lived happily thereafter.

This issue is being raised so many times by peoples, even was one of the favourite topic for the movie makers, to cast actors in such situations. But what is reality, can a man and a woman really be just friends? I think its hard for both of them, as they are so close to each other and someday this is surely going to happen, that they both going to fall in love with each other. And this is also the best thing, as he/she knows about all your secrets, so the bonding between both of them is stronger. Also if they are so close to each other, they understand each other very well, trust each other, and that's what is most required between such a relation. More importantly, if you love your best friend, should you cross the line? Think on this.

Can friends be lovers? yes they can and they will. If they are so much deep in friendship then parting for them become so difficult. But one thing is against this, as with a best friend you can share anything and everything without being judgemental he/she will listen. But when it comes to lovers there might be many soft feelings like possessiveness and ownership. You try to hide your bad things from her, you feel a bit shy ahead of your partner. But is it so when you know her from many days. I guess one cant behave so immaturely ahead of a friend whom you he/she knows from so long.

And moreover, you can't hold yourself for so long when you are so close to him/her. I'll tell you a situation too, for the same I am searching on net I encounter a question from someone, I don't remember the site, but the question goes like this:
I've been hanging out a lot recently with a friend I met at university. We're both single and loving the carefree lifestyle, cracking jokes about our hitched friends. Problem is, my body's hungry for sex - I'm human after all! - but I'm not sure it would be wise to cross that line, even though I know he'd go for it if I asked. Do you have any advice?

and more interestingly it is replied like this:
Your situation isn't uncommon these days. Many people are satisfying their sexual cravings with a bang buddy while waiting for the right relationship to come along. So I say: go ahead, get it on!

So this is for sure one can easily fall in love with his/her best friend and that lasts forever. In my opinion, a romance that started off where the couple were best friends first would probably last longer. I think the concept of falling in love with your best friend is romantic. As you never hesitate to open up ahead of him.her and try whatever you want. Many say that the very nature of true friendship, a deep and resounding commitment to love someone unconditionally, could lay the groundwork for either a hot and heavy romance or an everlasting love. So stop thinking so much.

"If you want to have a lasting, meaningful relationship, it's best that you're involved with a lover who is also your best friend."
Keith E. Whitfield, Ph.D., a co-author of Fighting for Your African American Marriage

Many people don't approach to their friends for the same as they sacred of being loosing a friend. Look my dear friends, this might be the same from the other end too, either she is feeling the same for you. So it very much fair and happy go lucky chance to fall in love with best friend.

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