First impressions really do count and the first date is the biggest hurdle in any relationship. It really is a one-shot, do or die scenario. If you mess up you'll never get to date number two. If you pass with flying colors then you may even wake up with her the next morning. And this day one cant forget about in the lifetime. so make the best out of it.
- Don't talk about yourself! Sure a woman says she wants to get to know you but show an interest in her life. People really love talking about themselves. While talking about her job may be boring, asking her about her hobbies or ambitions certainly isn't to her. Also, try to relate to these things rather than just saying, 'Ah, ok!' then asking another question. If she starts asking about you then do answer. That means you're building her interest in you.
- Don't burp or pass wind. Should you need to then excuse yourself and go to the bathroom. It's never funny or attractive.
- Not showing her that you find her sexual. If you go out and you're scared to touch her or let her know that you think she's sexy then trying to get a kiss at the end will be very strange. It won't make sense to her. When she tell you about ambitions or hobbies then tell her you find that really sexy about her.
- Don't be needy. Don't call her too soon, don't tell you her love her, don't show up at her house/work without her knowledge, don't propose marriage! It's not attractive.
- Don't tell her that she's the most beautiful/amazing/extraordinary girl you've ever been on a date with! She won't believe you and you're telling her that she's too good for you. She may well be the most beautiful but if she is very beautiful then she's heard it all before and if she's not at all she'll think you want her purely for sex. Here's a rule of thumb though - if she is beautiful then compliment her on her personality, if she's not then tell her you find her physically attractive.
Be the one you are, never pretend, be confident, and the things will go in favor of you. Best of luck.
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