Most of the youngsters in campus at very desperate about dating someone. Your campus life just begun and you are basking in the golden sunshine of discovering yourself, your friends and newfound love ! Friends catch you eyeing an attractive person and you seem delirious of everything else. Now that you have found out his/her name, wht should you do about it? Go on a date what else!
Is I am right? But there were many things one must keep in mind before dating someone.
You are willing to go on a date with someone. but with whom?, have you ever thought on this. Research on the guy/gal. Well, whom to date is an important issue. Generally, people go for guys or girls who are good looking, isn't it, often mistaking them to be good. Research should be done before asking them out. Maybe, the person you date turns out to be dud and spoils your whole date. So whom should ypu choose?
I do feel that dating is not necessarily love, but it has to be enjoyable. It matters to you, what you love on your date, suppose a guy likes a talketive girl and go on a date with a jus opposite girl. So to avoid such things better do a research. It is necesaary for you to feel comfortable with your date. You cant go out with a person who gives you a negative vibes, you should go ahead with the date only if you feel comfortable with the other person. But most of the people choose date in hurry and after going on date, its all shit, nothing else, so better do a bit of research work before going to a date.
Suppose you done all research work, but this doesn't mean that you have done all. You might get a sad response when you ask someone for a date. So better you must do something before asking him/her for a date. So its another important issue, how to ask? So learn to approach and ask for a date. May be just going up to the lady/guy in question would be the best thing to do, rather than trying out archaic ways of persuasion. As I see most of the guys acting smart to show that they are romantic, this might work with some girls but the one with a bit of sense of humur never get into this, so better to avoid this. Honesty mostly works. But not lines like, 'Hey there, I speak sarcasm as my second language'. Yeah, we do know of the strange butterflies in the stomach, those tense moments about appearance...just try to remain calm. But this how you just manage to get a date, are you sure you able to manage the date going, for this you need to do some more on this.
Now after getting all done, its time to decide where to go with the date. As most of the people already said that a location has a lot to do with good memories. So, plan it well. Although coffee shops are the most preferred destinations, you don't have to follow the herd. A hike, an exihibition, a candle light dinner, a movie or a play can all be good ideas. The idea is to gel or find a connection that keeps you guessing till the second date. People love to go to the coffee shps, but when I asked one of my seniors for date and asked her to visit the coffee shop she denied to visit there, as she said to me their must be some activity that we both enjoy and share with each other. So better for a first timer, explore different avenues, instead of following someones path, as you don't fell comfortable, sitting in front of him/her.
As I am a guy so I only say about the guys dunno about gals, might some one help me and add here as a comment. Now all set, just a matter of minutes, you are on a fly, so look you best and go for a kill so that your partner not able to forget this day, and not even you. So wht are you waiting for, get your hygine and styling sorted out. Treat her with respect. Know how to hold a door open for women. Start listening and stop talking.
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