How to Talk to Girls

As most of the guys in our college including me hesitate to start conversation with girls. As a guy, learning how to talk to girls can be one of the most challenging and rewarding skill he can acquire during his lifetime. And after the end of college also I hardly talked girls of our college. Would you agree that being able to carry a proper conversation with a girl would solve a lot of problems ? For this we used to arrange some meatings also, so that we guys may bale to get in touch with some girls.

Many of us feel that what should we talk to any girl, how to start the converasation with her. If you keep on deciding what you had to talk to the girl, then this might be time consuming. 

Some people had ideal topics of conversation beforehand. But what if, you are also introduced to this ideal topic, you would both have a wonderful time. It might be possible that you both keep on talking for hours and hours, and may fall in love with each other, and that is just because of that ideal topic. 

So I just mentioned that many people busy in deciding what topic to talk to about, and this would take time. So better not wasting time in that, start from any topic, any means any.

Conversations are like fires, once they are ignited with the right kindling, there’s no stopping them. So just ignite the fire and you just need to make a move. 

Now let me tell you something about me, I am also shy with girls at a time, and don't used to talk them, as I feel the same, that what should I talk about with them. But a freind of mine told me all this, treat that girl as a friend like I used to treat the male friends. By doing this I feel a bit comfortable with her, and about topic, well start anything you wish, as you used to with your male friends. Just have a note in your mind that you are talking to a girl. 

I started this following the simple things. In the start, I hesitate a bit to approach any girl, but once I manage to approach some girls, now I feel comfortable in talking with any girl.

For the first time I met a girl in a bus stop, as noone was around, just she and me are at the bus stop, neither she nor me utter a single word for more than 20 minutes, it was pin drop silence except the noise of the traffic running on the tracks. But after this long time, I some how manage to speak up. As she was standing for that long, I aksed her to sit down and then the conversation started that lasted for more than 1 hour, as we miss two buses also. 

Lol. you may not beleive this but this is true, we missed two buses as we are so involve in each other that we don't even cared about this that we are there to catch the bus.

So, its just a matter to start, so start from any point rather deciding ideal topic.